A survey of 2146 Hong Kong women between the ages of 21 and 40 revealed that 40% of them had never had an orgasm, and that 31.8% were cold towards sex. A sex therapist says the problems are probably because of their heavy workload and lack of sexual knowledge.
The first Chinese girlfriend I had, about 30 years ago, had been married for a few years when I met her. She was from Yunnan and came to the USA for higher studies. She told me that she never enjoyed sex with her husband. During intercourse, she would lie on her side reading a book while he entered from the rear. He would ejaculate quickly and leave, and that was that. When this woman first had an orgasm, with me, she couldn't even describe the pleasure! I met the second Chinese woman, in her thirties, about 20 years ago. She was from Beijing and had been married for sometime, and had a child. She, too, had her first orgasm with me. All these years later, I still recall her perplexity at what was happening to her. I paraphrase: "Why is that I never get wet when I am with my husband, but always get wet when I am with you?" The third woman, my current girlfriend is from Guandong Province. Also in her mid-thirties, she had been with her husband for 13 years and has one child. She is the most sensual woman I have known, eager for affection and with an exquisite way of touching me. She loves to be on top and reaches orgasm every time, often at least twice. She recently told me that she never "came" with her husband. Sex with him was painful because his penis was "huge". For some strange reason, this woman thought that her husband's ejaculation was the height of her pleasure, too! She had never been on top with him, nor had he ever entered her from the rear (a position she loves). Both this woman and her husband are well educated with the highest qualifications in their respective fields. What's with Mainland Chinese men?